I guess I didn't realize how much attention she really does pay to me and what I do. She is pretty standoffish and antisocial. I am glad that she looks up to me, but it also made me realize, that my obsession with my weight and all probably isn't the best thing for the girls to be around constantly. So I'm going to dial back my dieting, and start working on loving my body no matter the size or shape.
Morale of the story, even if you don't know it your kids are watching you.